nowtrytherest:

Just remember: even if you can’t slay dragons and shoot fireballs from your hands, you can step over small objects in your path, and that makes you more badass than a lot of video game characters.

"The goalpost will always be moved on us. For as long as people are uncomfortable with poly relationships they will demand that we prove our “stability” and “success” by having longer and longer relationships that fulfill an increasingly narrowly defined structure. When people see triads that have existed for 6 years they will demand 10, then 20, then 50. When they see that someone in that triad had a few relationships during that 50 years that started and ended the whole ordeal will be considered a failure. When families grow and shrink over time, we will be considered invalid families. When solo poly folks are happily dating for years without “settling down” or getting married they will be held up as examples of the failure of polyamory. This is unacceptable, and I wish we’d stop participating in the argument.

The definition of success in poly is not our ability to emulate the ideals of traditional relationships. It lies in our choice to structure our lives and relationships in the ways that work best for us as individuals, couples, groups, and families. Success in polyamory lies in having lives and relationships that make everyone stronger, happier, and better people."

Moving the Goalposts on Polyamorous Success”, by Benny on Queereka

THIS

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lil-dumplin said: this is so good! my old guitar teacher is in this :) and is that D?!

That’s awesome! And you bet your ass it’s D! She got the dress at pride this year, so pretty ><

sneakspeeks said: lifegoals or wifegoals is my new favourite saying and so much easier to say than "do i want to be you or sleep with you" so thank you for giving me this phrase omg i keep laughing

I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU HAVEN’T HEARD THAT PHRASE BEFORE! =D 

It’s so handy =) I remember the first time I heard it i was all “this… changes… EVERYTHING!!” 

I’m glad you’re enjoying it! Now go forth and have confusing feelings about women! yaaay!

Womyn - Alysha Brilla

This video for a fantastic song is filled with equally fantastic women from my general geographic area!!

hauntedgalaxy:

raise your hand if you’re a queer kid who started out as an overly invested “straight” “ally”

(Source: souledspike)

petitsirena:

sticks and stones may break my bones, but language dictates everything from social norms to legislation and it’s indeed often used to bolster violence and oppression sooOo

backwardsandinheels:

tastefullyoffensive:

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Oh my god it took me a second but this is so fucking hilarious.

divinedorothy:

bisexual means you can only like 2 things i’ve chosen drinking and wizards

NO
MORE
EXAM.
NONE!!!!
MOVE
HOME
THEN 
NEPAL ONE MONTH!!!!!!!

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NO

MORE

EXAM.

NONE!!!!

MOVE

HOME

THEN 

NEPAL ONE MONTH!!!!!!!

Brain says no more study.
Last exams of my undergrad today. Serious case of senioritis&#8230; we&#8217;ll see how this pans out&#8230;

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Brain says no more study.

Last exams of my undergrad today. Serious case of senioritis… we’ll see how this pans out…

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